🔸 Small Joy Generator
Pleasure is not a distraction. It’s proof of life.
“Joy is not the opposite of seriousness. It is the source of stamina.”
— HHH Trail Note
📍When to use:
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You’re stuck in gray, flavorless blah
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You haven’t laughed or smiled in days
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You’re working, living, doing—but feel nothing about any of it
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You’ve started asking yourself, “Does anything even feel good anymore?”
🌱 Step 1: Permission
Say (aloud if possible):
“It’s safe to feel good. I don’t need a reason.”
Why: Many people subconsciously tie joy to guilt, productivity, or permission from others.
We're cutting that cord.
🌀 Step 2: Use the Generator
Choose one of the following tiny joys—then actually do it, on purpose, like it matters:
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Bite into something crunchy and salty
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Listen to a nostalgic song from age 12–16
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Watch 30 seconds of a funny animal video (yes, really)
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Smell something good (coffee, candle, clean laundry)
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Text someone: “Thinking of you. That’s all.”
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Stand in the sun and close your eyes for 15 seconds
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Rewatch the exact movie scene that always makes you laugh or cry
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Move your body like an idiot to one stupid song
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Brush your teeth slowly and gratefully, like you’re caring for royalty
Pick one. Do it fully. Notice the shift, even if small.
Let it be enough.
✏️ Optional: Catalog the Feeling
Write this sentence in your notes app or a notebook:
“Today, I felt joy when _____.”
Over time, this becomes a library of access points. Your own customized joy map.
⚠️ Note: Joy ≠ Avoidance
This isn’t escapism. This is remembering why life is worth facing.
Joy is not the reward for healing. It's part of how we heal.
🧭 Want to Go Deeper?
Explore:
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Mood Before Meaning
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Presence Over Performance
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Rewriting Belief Loops